
2019 · Lulu Wang
A headstrong Chinese-American woman returns to China when her beloved grandmother is given a terminal diagnosis. Billi struggles with her family's decision to keep grandma in the dark about her own illness as they all stage an impromptu wedding to see grandma one last time.
dir. Lulu Wang · 2019
Billi, a Brooklyn writer, flies to Changchun for a hastily arranged wedding that is really a farewell: her grandmother is dying, and the family, following Chinese custom, has decided she must never know. Lulu Wang lived this story — she first told it on This American Life — and the film opens with the sly disclaimer that it is 'based on an actual lie.' What follows is a comedy of concealment played against a drama of grief, and a genuinely searching inquiry into whether the truth belongs to the individual or the family, the East-West question posed without a thumb on the scale. Wang's framing does quiet work: family members arranged in wide, frontal group compositions like formal portraits, slow push-ins as the lie tightens, Alex Weston's score sung by human voices where strings would be. Awkwafina, cast against her comic persona, won a Golden Globe; Zhao Shuzhen's Nai Nai, oblivious and radiant, is the performance people carry out of the theater. A Sundance sensation, it helped define A24's late-2010s ascendancy.
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