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Tea and Sympathy

1956 · Vincente Minnelli

A sensitive young man recalls his time in boarding school when the only person who seemed compassionate towards him was his housemaster's wife.

dir. Vincente Minnelli · 1956

Vincente Minnelli's adaptation of Robert Anderson's Broadway play arrived with its original stage leads intact — Deborah Kerr, John Kerr, Leif Erickson — and with the Production Code standing guard over everything the material was actually about. A sensitive prep-school boy, branded 'sister boy' for preferring folk songs and sewing to touch football, is hounded by classmates and by a housemaster obsessed with manliness; only the housemaster's lonely wife extends him kindness. The Code forbade any naming of homosexuality and imposed a moralizing frame, so Minnelli — Hollywood's great director of repressed longing, whose own queerness has been long discussed — smuggled the meaning through craft: hothouse CinemaScope color, the language of gardens and interiors, Kerr's extraordinary modulations of tenderness and fear. The result is a fascinating double exposure, a film about conformity's cruelty made under conformity's rules. Deborah Kerr's most famous line, delivered near the end, entered the culture whole. What censorship muffled in the script, the décor and the faces say fluently.

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