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How No Hard Feelings was received

2023 · Gene Stupnitsky · No Hard Feelings on Sightlines

The arc

The trailer set off a firestorm of age-gap discourse before anyone had seen it, but the film itself landed as sweeter and sadder than the premise suggested — and its solid theatrical run got it adopted as Exhibit A in the 'bring back the mid-budget studio comedy' cause.

What’s debated

The eternal split: is the premise irredeemably icky, or is complaining about an R-rated comedy being transgressive exactly the puritanism the film is poking at?

Its footprint

The nude beach brawl became instantly infamous — one of the most talked-about comedy scenes of 2023 — while Andrew Barth Feldman's slowed-down piano cover of Hall & Oates' 'Maneater' quietly became the scene people actually rewatch and post.

Where it stands

A 'they don't make these anymore' comedy that Letterboxd treats with surprising affection — filed under Jennifer Lawrence proving she's genuinely funny.

Did you know? The film was inspired by a real Craigslist ad, in which parents actually offered to hire someone to date their introverted teenage son and bring him out of his shell before college.

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